Truvy Jones (played by Dolly Parton) is standing on the porch of beauty salon talking with young Annette ( played by Daryl Hannah) “Honey” Truvy says, ” Time is marching on-and it is marching all over my face.”
No words were truer than this time is marching on and not only is it marching all over my face but it has taken over my whole body. As I recognize this phenomenon of aging I’m reminded that I’ve earned every wrinkle. Every year their numbers increase. We’ve been together so long, that we are becoming good friends. But not such good friends, that I wouldn’t agree to have them removed. Like un-friending a friend on Facebook.
I’ve always wondered if wrinkles could talk what they might say? Perhaps the lines on my forehead would say? I waited up for my children when they missed their curfew, started driving or went out on their first dates.
However, there is another way to look at these characteristic indention. Maybe the lines on my forehead show how much time I’ve spent thinking about those I love or studying the world around me and finding it good. The lines around my mouth might come from the many times I ‘ve stood in awe and smiled at a beautiful sunset over the ocean. Or smiled at a flower as it began to bloom as I walked through the rose garden in Balboa Park in San Diego and smiled at how wonderful creation is. I’m sure that some of the lines around my mouth and eyes are from the gift of laughter. Anyone who knows me knows I laugh a lot.
Perhaps the lines around my eyes are laugh lines memory boards that hold the experiences of my life that I have enjoyed and participated in the most. Occasionally my girlfriends and I would get together. We use to laugh and joke with each other about ageing.
Now many decades later we wish that the beauty secrets in ” Grandma’s Little Beauty” remedy books would do the trick. But the reality is it takes money, money, money, to remove all our lines. What is a girl to do these days with all the choices we have?